10.05.2007

It is Well

The howareyou?goodyourself?fine exchange has often bothered me.


We'd already exchanged formalities, but as he left, he half-turned back to say "Are you well?" his voice lifted at the end in statement of a question.

Several words caught at my throat.
He'd asked the right question.

"With my soul" I replied.

At last, it is the right answer.

4 comments:

Churaesie said...

p.s.
This quote is is in my advisor's room, written in calligraphy, as a poster for a outdoors guide who was a math student years ago. He did the calligraphy himself:


To suffer woes which Hope thinks infinite;
To forgive wrongs darker than Death or Night;
To defy Power, which seems Omnipotent;
To love, and bear; to hope, till Hope creates
From its own wreck the thing it contemplates;
Neither to change nor falter nor repent;
This, like thy glory, Titan! is to be
Good, great and joyous, beautiful and free;
This is alone Life; Joy, Empire, and Victory!


Promethius Unbound
-Percy Bysshe Shelley

Anonymous said...

howareyou?goodyourself?fine exchange has bothered me for a long time, knowing that the other party neither cares too much to bother for a longer conversation nor wants to pass by not noticing you. That is why I have stopped really saying hi to people…which is not really a healthy solution to things but does at least remove you from the trouble of having to go through the painfully awkward exchange of meaningless words.

Churaesie said...

who are you?

Churaesie said...

and I mean that in the most inviting of ways