Dear Rossy,

I think it's safe to tell you that the light is back in my eyes and the smile is back on my face.

I don't know what's going to happen next,
but it'll be good.


Thank you for your hope and your note all this time.

onward, into the Future!

I'm taking this moment to remind myself

that with the future and the whole unknown thing and all...

a major perk is that it is prime space for making adventures and for trying things that are different than the part of the future that's already happened (it used to be the future).

There's so much of it to fill with new and different things. Or old and deeper things. This is very exciting.

Sometimes I forget.

Lifted

Reading through an old journal today,
I discovered this message to myself.



**
I already know what's important. We all do.

Our lives depend on remembering.
**


I think I hope it's true.
And I hope that I can act on it.

Kelvin's Fair to Middlin' List of Things YOU Can Do to Help

Passing through LA on my way to Cairo, I met this guy on his way to Lima. We were both heading to our Global Urban Trek cities. We might never pass the same way again, but at least there are the internets. He's done a much more efficient job of directing his energy on the behalf of people in need than I have, and his blog Notes from the Overground has a lot of his interesting thoughts as he actually tries to practice his beliefs. He recently made this post of things that members of the general public can do to contribute. I like it, so I'm posting it here too.
Thanks.

Mango'd

Today I shared 2 mangoes with a housemate.

After unsuccessfully cutting most of the the fruit away, I tried the soft yellow around the seed with my teeth.

And I found myself again in Cairo. I felt it before I recognized it. I felt it before my mind filled in the nighttime, people, traffic, and dust.

There are not juice stands here, on every other corner, the way they are in Cairo. The sense Mango filling my mouth and the memories that filled my brain took me back to buying glasses of fresh mango juice from the juice stands - a tall glass filled with liquid fruit - we competed with each other to find the best and cheapest stands.

I maintain that Tiff and I won.
I don't remember the exact price, but I remember it was less than anything else we knew of, and the juice was first rate - eating mangoes that you didn't even have to chew. The place is in Arbaa-Wa-Noos - I think it's in the Northeast. Hop in a mini bus that goes to Seleb! Seleb! Seleb! and get off when you see the sign for the textile factory: 'ال سلاب,' if I remember right. There was construction here, a few years ago, so it probably looks different now. But find the school - ask someone to take you to Central, school for displaced Sudanese. Stop at the school and play jumprope with the kids and drink tea with the teachers. Ask them if they ever got the pictures we took with them. Ask them whose gone back to Sudan and if there are new teachers. Ask them if Bafi is still there, or if he and his family have made it out. Then keep going down the direction you were headed in. I think you'll come to a fork in the path between sand and abandoned buildings. They're not abandoned - most buildings are not falling apart but rather are unfinished, so as to avoid the tax that applies to completed buildings. Take the right fork. In that direction, I think, and not too much farther, is the best mango juice stand I know of.

It's past Gheda's house and near the restaurant where we took her out to dinner. Gheda, who spoke a little more of our language than we knew of hers, who was engaged to be married, who invited us into her home, and whose friendship with us consisted mostly of smiles, nods, and laughter to replace the words, but none of it ingenuine.

I am going against Pascal's musings.
I am trying to be everything
Is this why I unravel?

Is anything correlated?

I think I cast the thread of these stories in the partial hope that someone will recognize the spool that spins them or the fabric they might be trying to weave.


I hardly dare ask for causes,
but is anything correlated?

Fishbowl

At one time, I'd asked for a sign
to help me identify a person

A friend asked me once, what I would do if I got it.
'I think I'd cry'

A year later, my ideas of fate and signs had changed, but I knew when I found its equivalent, and

I was right.

I cry at things I don't understand
and things that are true
and I'd just found something all of good, longed-for, unexpected, and real.

However, the near future contained sudden modifications to the situation I thought I'd found, and the side-effects from it which I'd accepted on temporary conditions swelled like ice until entire paths turned to rubble. The maw between what could and what was yawned until one gray morning I woke for the last time for the next year beneath my bed, unusually confused by my surroundings and feeling like a seasick sailor. My first task was to understand that I'd never before understood what being homesick really felt like.

For a year, I lived with experiences and colors at once too subdued and too brilliant to be continuously real. I looked out windows as if they were closed eyelids. When I awoke suddenly this January, my memory of the time preceding seemed to fade more quickly. My inclination is to explain this in terms of a lived dream, but this is probably not useful as I'll only confuse myself with attempted justifications for uncorrelations resulting from a poor organizing metaphor. It is poetic though.

The hope I'd let dissolve revived in the real world, and I searched for a phrase to describe how I felt. I wanted to say it felt surreal or felt like I was dreaming except that those sentiments are both cliché and false. If anything, I felt like I'd finally woken up.

But further complications continuously submerge me into an underwater realm of subconscious. At times I find myself free of this fishbowl, but eventually my sense of the vitality of reality fades. I don't know if I'm exaggerating or getting complacent.

I sometimes find a distinction between waking and sleeping useful because knowing that the reality I exist in will not stay helps me get through dreams. I had a sign above my pillow saying 'Reality' with an arrow pointing towards the rest of my room. But,
I probably do not help my situation by dividing time between dreaming and awake. It might all be one tangled string of possible correlations and attempted explanations.

.

I heard that there was a study done on rats in which the rats received random shocks regardless of what levers they pressed or what actions they did or didn't perform. I heard the rats ceased to function.



The ability to function is an extremely important one to me. Perhaps this is why I feel like I have so much trouble with it. Perhaps I want the wrong kinds of explanations - the kinds that use words and begin with 'because'.


I think I will never get out of the fishbowl by specifically trying.



(further thoughts might unroll, I feel them curled like ferns around these images)

Dear Curious Psychiatrist,

Sometimes I write to help my present or future self
sometimes I write in the hope that others might benefit
sometimes I write because I hope that a curious psychiatrist will someday find my written ramblings and piece myself together from a more objective vantage point.

The more I understand though,
the more I realize that I must be that psychiatrist.

Odd tools that they are

I am here,

still -

I lack the words to say in what manner -
There are either too many or too few.

What I need, I think,
are some good stories.